This is what all the hype has been about.....
Jay Z and Alicia Keys performing "Empire State Of Mind" at the World Series
And NO HOV DID NOT edit the song in regards to him making the Yankees hat famous......
Enjoy!!
Smooches xoxo
Mello Mello MELLO
Sorry I just had to do it....
SIMPLY because I LOVE Carmello Anthony. He is oh so scrumptious...... *sigh*
Smooches xoxo
MY "Prince Charming"
Okay so I was doing some writing the other day and found myself writing about ALL my past relationships with men. Not just men that I have dated or dealt with at one point in time but men that have been a part of my life and I’ve definitely come to the conclusion that every single man that has come into my life has done my wrong. EVERY SINGLE ONE... and that’s okay because I have grown, and learned more about myself and what I want out of a man from having all these failed relationships.
After HOURS of reanalyzing my past “failures” I’ve compiled a list of shit that I am looking for in MY version of “prince charming.” I’m not looking for perfection just looking for happiness and love.
My “Prince Charming”
LOYALTY & HONESTY This one is HUGE for me, why? Because EVERY SINGLE man has lied to me. I’m not talking about those small little white lies that people say, I’m talking about HUGE lies that continue to linger after time because it is always in the back of my head. One thing about me that men don’t seem to understand is that I am NOT naïve and even though you may think that I am falling for all your bullshit I KNOW what it really is. When you start lying to me, I don’t believe you: It is that simple. And if I don’t believe you then I can’t be with you. I don’t want to go out with the girls or you go out with your boys and always wonder what you’re doing. Been there, done that, and NO thank you.
DREAMS & AMBITIONS: I have goals. I have dreams. I have ambitions and I expect my man to be just as goal oriented as I am. I have things I want to accomplish and want a man that wants to build with me not just take in from my success. But not just having goals is enough; I need him grinding his hardest to make that shit happen. When I see a man that goes for what he wants it lets me know that nothing is out of his reach.
SENSE OF HUMOR: I need a man that can make me laugh. I am a very playful creature; I tickle, I’ll wrestle with you, I’ll play fight with your ass. Stupid shit makes me laugh so when a man can keep me laughing and smiling then that is an added bonus. I don’t want to be watching “Family Guy,” “Seinfeld,” “WipeOut” and you look like you just swallowed a lemon. It isn’t gonna work.
INTELLIGENT: And Im not talking about having a college degree, Im talking about someone that knows shit about life, about the world…. Someone that is not ignorant to the things around us. A man that I can hold a conversation with and wont think that “Conversate” is an actual word *SMH*. And it isn’t just about what goes on in the world and in the city around us but also be street smart. I know a little bit of a little bit and believe me it is definitely enough to get me by but I don’t want a man that cant relate to some of the things that I’ve lived, gone thru, and experienced.
HUSTLER & GRINDER: Im not talking about a dope boy or no shit like that, Im talking about a man that is about his hustle, his grind, his MONEY. I consider myself to be a hustler especially in the line of work that I’m in it’s all about hustling money so I need a man with that hustler mentality. When a person has a hustler’s mentality EVERYTHING they do and put work into someway, somehow, comes back to them. I want a man that KNOWS what I’m talking about when I say “Naw baby, we can’t link up cause I gotta go to work.” You don’t have to have all the money in the world BUT you do have to be able to take care of your own.
EYES: This is my muthafucking list and I like a man with great eyes. They say that person’s eyes are the windows to their soul so I want a man to have eyes that just tell a story. Eyes that tell THEIR story. Fairly simple….
LOVE FOR THE ARTS: Again this is my list and I want a man that is well rounded in every sense of the word. I love music, movies, poetry, architecture, literature etc and my man NEEDS to be able to relate to me on some level when it comes to the Arts. Music is a BIG one….simply because I love ALL music and I have my phases. One day I may be listening to 90s R&B and the next day I’ll be straight Rock&Roll. I need a man that has an understanding of GREAT music.
RESPECT: You need to give, to receive. Very simple. I have daughters and I want my daughters to see their mommy with a man that respects her to the fullest. I want to go out and have the world see that we love each other, and that we respect each other. A relationship cannot and will not succeed if the couple cannot respect each other for being different, and making mistakes. Noone is perfect but when you love someone you will always respect them. Respect is HUGE…and for those that know a little about my past would understand why.
SPORTS: I love sports…. Football and boxing being my number 1’s and I know I shouldn’t have too much of a problem finding a man that doesn’t like sports. During football season I try to watch all the games on Sundays and of course Monday Night Football. I cant have a man that will ONLY watch football when their team is playing *smh* oh no, not happening.
SEX: YES I need to have great sex….ALL THE TIME. I feel like I put in work when I have sex so I expect the same thing in return. Easy…
OVERPROTECTIVE: I CANNOT do it. I repeat I CANNOT do it. That overprotective bullshit is not sexy, it’s not cute, and it’s a big no no. I am old enough to know right from wrong, and am clear of mind body and soul to understand the decisions I make will affect the outcome of circumstances therefore I don’t need someone to try and shelter me from the rest of the world. I want to be able to go out with the girls and you be able to go out with the fellas and everything be okay. The more someone tries to control my decisions, and control my life the more I start to venture. Be secure with yourself and what we have together.
SEX APPEAL: Yeah looks aren’t everything but come-on now; one of the first things that attract you to
someone is their appearance. I’m not looking for my man to look like Lorenz Tate (don’t get me wrong though if he did….Owwww) but he’s gotta have sex appeal to him. I want my man to compliment me. He has to know how to dress, smell good, and just keep up with himself and his manly maintenance. If we go out and you expect me to look a certain way I expect you to look a certain way too. I want to walk in the room and everyone turn and say to themselves “Damn, who’s that fly couple right there?!” Own your look, make it yours, stand the fuck out…
KNOW YOUR ROLE: You are my man and I am your lady, don’t let a muthafucker try and come between that. Keep your homeboys in check as I will keep my girls in check and I hate being like this but I’ve dealt with it before, keep your family out of our business. “Misery loves company” but they damn sure aint gonna give it to us because I wont let it happen. If someone gets out of line about my man then I’m on that shit like white on rice and I expect the same REGARDLESS of who it is. If we are together it is because we want to be and we are happy with each other, plain and simple. Imma hold him down and be his Ride or Die as long as he plays his role.
I think I’m done….
Where are you Mr. Man???
Smooches xoxo
What A MAN!!!!
I was browsing thru my favorite blogs and came across this..... Mr. Bout Dat Money was featured as the MAN on www.dearzette.com for their "What A Man Wednesday."
All I gotta say is Owwwwwww...... And I think that says it ALL
Smooches xoxo
"The Relationship"
Ice The Villain's "The Relationship" has FINALLY dropped and all over the internet. Produced ENTIRELY by LCD, "this shit right heere" is O-fuckin-ficial.
The thing about this mixtape right here that I think has made it a tad bit more special, at least to me, is the fact that I can relate to soo many of the tracks on this joint. Each track explains a different level of "The Relationship." It's more-so like a story.... a timeline of love and heartbreak. This is some REAL shit, a muthafucking CLASSIC.
This is a MUST....
THE RELATIONSHIP http://usershare.net/gp0t5xo098zy
Stop Bullshitting Yourself....
Step it up and listen to some REAL music.....
Smooches xoxo
Can You Repeat That For Me....
I was on twitter some time ago and was fucking around just saying some random shit... yeah what's new right?!?! Anyways some tweets started becoming more like "sex tips" then tweets and got alot of positive feedback from them. I've decided to share them ALL again.....
LADIES: If you are gonna give your man some "Becky" dont half-ass it!! Lick it, suck it, spit on it, moan while the dick is in your mouth.... all that. Give it to him like there is no tomorrow and I bet he will appreciate you more just because you put in that extra effort.
FELLAS: Don't ask to get your dick sucked if you aren't willing to lick the kitty kat... Doesn't work like that.
LADIES: If you want your man to eat the pussy PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE wash up... he isn't gonna wanna put his face in it if it smells like bad fish.
FELLAS: When your girl is giving you head don't start overpowering the situation by pounding her head farther down. Guaranteed she doesn't like it.... it's uncomfortable because she can't control how much dick is in her mouth or how fast she has to suck and more importantly teeth may just be felt on the dick. Don't say I didn't warn you.
FELLAS: DON'T try to jack rabbit the pussy. Constant pounding is not good. The shit is not sexy or turning anyone on. Come on now, this is no longer high school. Change of pace is major to keep her on her toes,
LADIES: There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with masturbating. If you don't know your own body and what makes you tick then how the hell do you expect a man to.
LADIES: If your man doesn't know where to touch or how to do it to YOUR liking, guide him. Sex is not just about him. It takes two to make it happen so the both of you should enjoy it to the fullest.
FELLAS: Foreplay is key... Imma say it again.... Foreplay is key!!!! Don't complain about the pussy not being wet enough if you aren't stimulating her and making her wet. We don't have dicks that get hard in the matter of seconds, women need an appetizer before the main course.
LADIES & FELLAS: Find out what turns your significant other on.... you could be pleasantly surprised at the craziness that is in their head and even more surprised at yourself when you do it and like it too.
LADIES: Stop being lazy and having your man do all the work. Hop on the dick and enjoy the ride. You get clit and vaginal stimulation AND he will love the view.
FELLAS: Learn where your ladies G-Spot is at because when you're hitting it from the back, it's the EASIEST way to make her cum and man will she cum....
FELLAS: If your lady ever tells you "YES Right There" then damnit you better keep that stroke going and KNOW where and how to hit it again
FELLAS: Not all women can cum from having sex doggy style soo if this is the case with your lady play with her cilt while you're stoking it.
LADIES: If you are one of the women that cannot cum from getting it from the back then play with your own clit. Believe me it feels wonderful and he'll also love seeing you play with yourself.
FELLAS: Not all big dick is good dick. Learn to work with what you got. The motion of the ocean may sometimes work out better then the size of the boat. If not then you better get the licking....
LADIES: Your man wants a FREAK in the bedroom so stop with all that shy shit. We all have it in us.
FELLAS: Don't try to have sex in one single postition. Switch it up and LADIES if he won't make the switch then you do it. Take control of the situation. Throw him on the bed and fuck the shit outta him.
FELLAS: When eating pussy don't put too much pressure on the clit. It's definitely not a good look, the shit can start to hurt and you will only turn her off.
LADIES: When sucking your mans dick don't just suck on the head. That shit is not turning him on at all. Go down on it as far as you can, a little gagging is not gonna kill you.
LADIES: Some men like to stick a finger in the booty butt hole while having sex so let them. It is ONLY a finger #1 and #2 you may just like it. May end up being more then a finger ;)
FELLAS & LADIES: Keep your hygiene up PLEASE. Ladies your man wants some silky smooth legs when you crawl in bed and fellas your girl isn't gonna wanna suck your dick and floss all at the same time so handle that. You want your girls pussy trimmed and tidy what makes you think that she doesn't your shit tidy too.
LADIES: Take a trip to Victoria's Secret every so often and buy yourself something sexy. Even if it's a cute pair of boy shorts and a bra. That little umph of sexiness will definitely go a long way.
FELLAS: When having sex with your girl don't forget to touch her and caress her. The skin is the largest organ on the body so caressing is absolutely wonderful.
FELLAS: A little ass smacking, hair pulling, some choking (at least for me) is GREAT.... so DO IT!!
LADIES: Your man likes to know that he's doing his job (it's a male ego thing) so talk shit. Let him know that he's dick is wonderful, and that the pussy is his etc... it works him up.
LADIES: Don't overdue the moaning. That shit is not sexy, it sounds fake, and honestly sounds like a wack ass porno.... just a bunch of noise.
FELLAS: Moaning is a NO NO.... PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't start moaning more then your girl. That shit is soooo unattractive and if you were fucking me I would stop mid stroke and leave you hanging.... No bullshit.
FELLAS & LADIES: Don't be scared to try something new. Sexual openness can go a LONG muthafucking way. Real Talk.
Stop Bullshitting Yourselves and start having some BOMB sex....
Smooches xoxo
Fuck You, You Hoe I Dont Want You Back.
Falling in love after being heartbroken is definitely a challenge all in itself. Ones views on love, relationships, and trust change believe me I've been there and done that. I've definitely had my share of heartbreak, disappointments, lies, trials and tribulations BUT I can say that with every failed "situationship" I have learned a little more about myself and what I really want in man and what I really want out of love.
I've learned to read the lies, avoid the bullshit, and not deal with anyone that has no intentions on making me happy. Im in a place in my life where I don't want to play games anymore. I've done the dating thing, I've done the single thing and Im DONE. It's always the same shit, at least with me it is.... I meet someone, we'll have good conversation, we'll seem to have a lot in common so we start "dating." Shit will be good for a few months, you know outings every weekend, spending nights together, great sex, everything will be good at least in my eyes it is. Then it happens.... he'll stop calling/texting, communication becomes minimal, our time together disappears, and Im left feeling a fool for even believing the lies that had came out his mouth so I leave him alone. And like clock work these same niccas that dropped me like a bad habit ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS come running back. It'll start with simple text messages and phone calls.... You know the "Hey how have you been? What have you been up to? You know I miss you right?!" UGHHH.... the grass wasn't greener on the other side now was it mofo.
These niccas always think that they can run off and "disappear" until they are ready to come back in the picture. It don't even work like that and Im sick and tired of niccas thinking that just because they have a dick that that's how it's gonna go down. Naw.... not even a little bit. Yall can Stop Bullshitting Yourselves.... they may be able to pull that shit off with some of these other bitches out here but I DONT WANNA HEAR IT mainly because I KNOW they are out fucking around. These "men" will have a bitch around for a minute, think that she will always fuck with them, stop dealing with her to deal with other broads and then when they realize that what they had was good, they wanna come back. And for that reason right there is why it has been sooo hard for me to even get close enough to another man let alone fall in love again....
But for the past few months I have been focusing on myself and my kids and not even thinking about another "situationship." I call them "situationships" because its a situation that involves characteristics of a relationship.... if that makes any sense (it makes sense in my head). Like I said before Im tired of the same bullshit.... Tired of the same lies..... Tired of the same games..... Tired of men thinking that I don't know what the deal really is and looking at me like Im a fool.
To create happiness one has got to think outside of the box.... take chances.... go for the unexpected and try something NEW. You never know, love and happiness could be staring at you right in the face but because you're afraid of CHANGE, you don't take that chance and it slips away..... Im not gonna let it slip. Real Talk.
"Someone Doesn't Have To Be PERFECT To Be EXACTLY What You Need."
Smooches xoxo
MUAH XOXO
A random fact about me is that I love smooching.... so I was reading this article today and found some of the facts kinda interesting and here they are.....
10 Things You May Not Know About Kissing
1. There are TONS of nerve endings in your lips...
(100 times more then in your fingertips) and they all stimulate desire. That's why smooching before, after, and during sex is EXTREMELY satisfying.
2. 40% of men say that....
a really long, steamy, and sensual kiss will get them ready for sex. (30% of men say that grabbing their dick will do it... of course.)3. Pay Attention to the "See You Later" Pecks...
If your man gives you a quick kiss on the cheek when saying goodbye, it means that he is guarded and doesn't emote easily. If this is a more recent development, its a warning sign and he is feeling ambivalent about the relationship.
4. Instantly turn up the kissing intimacy...
by closing the "A-Frame" you know where you and your man are kissing but your hips are about a mile away. By bringing your hips together you automatically are raising the degree of desire.
5. Kiss a guy's ear...
start with some light sucking on the earlobe then trace the outline of his ear with the tip of your tongue. You get bonus points if you whisper naughty things in his ear (I LOVE the ears)
6. Men in initiate open-mouth kissing...
to transfer libido-boosting testosterone to their significant others. So when his kisses are becoming a little more aggressive, its not just about his desire--he wants you to be a bit more amorous too.
7. Men are more then TWICE as likely....
to have sex with a bad kisser then are women. (Crazy huh?!)
8. When coy kisses arent gonna cut it...
here's why you should let loose: Passionate kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more excited, AND easier for you to reach an orgasm.
9. 44% of women...
between the ages of 18 and 24 say that they have kissed another women. Owww. The percentage drops to 43% for women between 25 and 34.
10. The "XX" is shorthand for a smooch...
and came about back in the Middle Ages when people signed legal contracts with an "X" and then kissed it pledging their honor.
Smooches XOXO
Suck A DICK
Study: Fellatio may significantly decrease the risk of breast cancer in women
Women who perform the act of fellatio and swallow semen on a regular basis, one to two times a week, may reduce their risk of breast cancer by up to 40 percent, a North Carolina State University study found.
Doctors had never suspected a link between the act of fellatio and breast cancer, but new research being performed at North Carolina State University is starting to suggest that there could be an important link between the two. In a study of over 15,000 women suspected of having performed regular fellatio and swallowed the ejaculatory fluid, over the past ten years, the researchers found that those actually having performed the act regularly, one to two times a week, had a lower occurrence of breast cancer than those who had not. There was no increased risk, however, for those who did not regularly perform. "I think it removes the last shade of doubt that fellatio is actually a healthy act," said Dr. A.J. Kramer of Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, who was not involved in the research. "I am surprised by these findings, but am also excited that the researchers may have discovered a relatively easy way to lower the occurrence of breast cancer in women." The University researchers stressed that, though breast cancer is relatively uncommon, any steps taken to reduce the risk would be a wise decision."Only with regular occurrence will your chances be reduced, so I encourage all women out there to make fellatio an important part of their daily routine," said Dr. Helena Shifteer, one of the researchers at the University. "Since the emergence of the research, I try to fellate at least once every other night to reduce my chances." The study is reported in Friday's Journal of Medical Research. In 1991, 43,582 women died of breast cancer, as reported by the National Cancer Institute. Dr. Len Lictepeen, deputy chief medical officer for the American Cancer Society, said women should not overlook or "play down" these findings. "This will hopefully change women's practice and patterns, resulting in a severe drop in the future number of cases," Lictepeen said.
Sooner said the research shows no increase in the risk of breast cancer in those who are, for whatever reason, not able to fellate regularly. "There's definitely fertile ground for more research. Many have stepped forward to volunteer for related research now in the planning stages," he said. Almost every woman is, at some point, going to perform the act of fellatio, but it is the frequency at which this event occurs that makes the difference, say researchers. Also key seems to be the protein and enzyme count in the semen, but researchers are again waiting for more test data. The reasearch consisted of two groups, 6,246 women ages 25 to 45 who had performed fellatio and swallowed on a regular basis over the past five to ten years, and 9,728 women who had not or did not swallow. The group of women who had performed and swallowed had a breast cancer rate of 1.9 percent and the group who had not had a breast cancer rate of 10.4 percent. "The findings do suggest that there are other causes for breast cancer besides the absence of regular fellatio," Shafteer said. "It's a cause, not THE cause."
Source - CNN.COM
Crazy as shit huh?!?! lol.... LADIES LADIES LADIES; I suggest you start swallowing if you dont already!!!! Stop Bullshitting Yourself
Smooches xoxo
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